Sharon Reformed Presbyterian Church · Sermon study sheet
The 5th Commandment
Bryan Schneider · October 9, 2021
Exodus 20:12
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Summary
- The fifth commandment requires inward respect and outward duties appropriate to every God-ordered relationship.
- For children, honoring parents ordinarily includes attentive and willing obedience in the Lord.
- Adult children continue respect and care, refusing religious excuses like Corban that conceal neglect.
- Parental authority is limited by God's authority, and marriage establishes a new household that must be respected.
- Jesus perfectly honored his Father and earthly mother; forgiven believers obey from love through the Spirit.
Reflection and discussion
- Does my speech and conduct show genuine honor toward parents and other lawful authorities?
- Am I using work, religion, or resentment to avoid appropriate care for aging parents?
- As a parent or leader, do I exercise authority within God's limits and for another's good?
- How does Christ's obedience and forgiveness change the motive for honoring others?
Key terms
- Honor
- Due reverence expressed in heart, speech, conduct, prayer, gratitude, and appropriate support.
- Corban
- A gift dedicated to God that was misused as an excuse for withholding care owed to parents.
- Authority under God
- Real human authority that must be honored but can never command sin or replace God's supreme rule.