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Father, thank you for this day, your Word, and its true people and hard stories that expose our hearts. Help us know and walk in your ways. In Jesus' name, amen.
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Scripture Passage
Samson’s Philistine Wife
14 Now Samson went down to Timnah, and saw a woman in Timnah of the daughters of the Philistines. 2 So he went up and told his father and mother, saying, “I have seen a woman in Timnah of the daughters of the Philistines; now therefore, get her for me as a wife.”
3 Then his father and mother said to him, “Is there no woman among the daughters of your brethren, or among all my people, that you must go and get a wife from the uncircumcised Philistines?”
And Samson said to his father, “Get her for me, for she pleases me well.”
4 But his father and mother did not know that it was of the Lord—that He was seeking an occasion to move against the Philistines. For at that time the Philistines had dominion over Israel.
5 So Samson went down to Timnah with his father and mother, and came to the vineyards of Timnah.
Now to his surprise, a young lion came roaring against him. 6 And the Spirit of the Lord came mightily upon him, and he tore the lion apart as one would have torn apart a young goat, though he had nothing in his hand. But he did not tell his father or his mother what he had done.
7 Then he went down and talked with the woman; and she pleased Samson well. 8 After some time, when he returned to get her, he turned aside to see the carcass of the lion. And behold, a swarm of bees and honey were in the carcass of the lion. 9 He took some of it in his hands and went along, eating. When he came to his father and mother, he gave some to them, and they also ate. But he did not tell them that he had taken the honey out of the carcass of the lion.
10 So his father went down to the woman. And Samson gave a feast there, for young men used to do so. 11 And it happened, when they saw him, that they brought thirty companions to be with him.
12 Then Samson said to them, “Let me pose a riddle to you. If you can correctly solve and explain it to me within the seven days of the feast, then I will give you thirty linen garments and thirty changes of clothing. 13 But if you cannot explain it to me, then you shall give me thirty linen garments and thirty changes of clothing.”
And they said to him, “Pose your riddle, that we may hear it.”
14 So he said to them:
“Out of the eater came something to eat,
And out of the strong came something sweet.”
Now for three days they could not explain the riddle.
15 But it came to pass on the seventh day that they said to Samson’s wife, “Entice your husband, that he may explain the riddle to us, or else we will burn you and your father’s house with fire. Have you invited us in order to take what is ours? Is that not so?”
16 Then Samson’s wife wept on him, and said, “You only hate me! You do not love me! You have posed a riddle to the sons of my people, but you have not explained it to me.”
And he said to her, “Look, I have not explained it to my father or my mother; so should I explain it to you?” 17 Now she had wept on him the seven days while their feast lasted. And it happened on the seventh day that he told her, because she pressed him so much. Then she explained the riddle to the sons of her people. 18 So the men of the city said to him on the seventh day before the sun went down:
“What is sweeter than honey?
And what is stronger than a lion?”
And he said to them:
“If you had not plowed with my heifer,
You would not have solved my riddle!”
19 Then the Spirit of the Lord came upon him mightily, and he went down to Ashkelon and killed thirty of their men, took their apparel, and gave the changes of clothing to those who had explained the riddle. So his anger was aroused, and he went back up to his father’s house. 20 And Samson’s wife was given to his companion, who had been his best man.
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The New King James Version (Nashville: Thomas Nelson, 1982), Judges 14.
A — About
What Is This Passage About?
Samson pursues a forbidden Philistine marriage, kills a lion by the Spirit, turns its carcass into a riddle, and answers the Philistines' coercion with lethal anger. Yet the Lord mysteriously uses this sinful situation against Israel's oppressors.
B — Best Verse
Which Verse Best Summarizes the Passage?
Judges 14:4
Bryan's exposition identifies verse 4 as the chapter's theological hinge: Samson's parents do not know that the Lord is seeking an occasion against the Philistines.
C — Called or Christ
C — Christ Connection
Do not treat Samson's sin as permission to ignore God's commands. Trust God's mysterious providence even through human failure, and look to Jesus, the true devoted one and greater strong man who perfectly obeyed.
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Devotional Study
Transcript of the devotion. Minor transcription errors may remain.
Hey, hey, good morning. Good morning. Welcome to Coffee and Devotions. This morning, we're going to continue on the story of Samson looking at Judges chapter 14. Did you know he had a bow before Delilah? Who was Samson's girl before Delilah? Let's have some coffee. We'll pray. We'll get into God's word. Let's pray. Father, we thank you for this day. We thank you for your word, Lord. We thank you for giving us true stories, true people, real hard things, things that make us scratch our heads, but also Lord, that we're able to see ourselves. Please, Father, help us to know and to walk in your ways in Jesus's name. Amen. All right, we are at Judges chapter 14. Now Samson went down to Timna and saw a woman in Timna of the daughters of the Philistines. So he went up and told his father and mother, saying, "I have seen a woman in Timna of the daughters of the Philistines. Now therefore, get her for me as a wife." Then his father and mother said to him, "Is there no woman among the daughters of the brethren, or among all my people that you must go and get a wife from the uncircumcised Philistines?" And Samson said to his father, "Gare for me, for she pleases me well." But his father and mother did not know that it was of the Lord. That he was seeking an occasion to move against the Philistines. For at that time the Philistines had dominion over Israel. So Samson went down to Timna with his father and mother and came to the vineyards of Timna. Now to his surprise, a young lion came roaring against him. And the spirit of the Lord came mightily upon him, and he tore the lion apart with, as one would have torn apart a young goat, though he had nothing in his hand. But he did not tell his father or mother what he had done. Then he went down and talked with the woman, and she pleased Samson well. After some time, when he returned to get her, he turned aside to see the carcass of the lion. And behold, a swarm of bees and honey were on the carcass of the lion. So he took of some of it in his hand and went along eating. When he came to his father and mother, he gave them some to them, and they ate also. But he did not tell them that he had taken the honey out of the carcass of a lion. So his father went down to the woman and Samson gave a feast there for young men used to do so. And it happened when they saw him that they brought 30 companions to be with him. Then Samson said to them, "Let me pose you a riddle. If you can correctly solve and explain it to me within the seven days of the feast, then I will give you 30 linen garments and 30 changes of clothing. But if you cannot explain it to me, then you shall give me 30 linen garments and 30 changes of clothing. And they said to him, "Pose your riddle that we may hear it." So he said to them, "Out of the eater came something to eat, and out of the strong came something sweet. Now for 3 days they could not explain the riddle. But it came to pass on the seventh day that they said to Samson's wife, "Entistic your husband that he may explain the riddle to us, or else we will burn you and your father's house with fire. Have you invited us in order to take what is ours? Is that not so?" Then Samson's wife wept on him and said, "You only hate me. You do not love me. You have posed a riddle to the to the sons of my people, but you have not explained it to me. And he said to her, look, I have not explained it but to my mother and my father. So should I explain it to you? So she had now she had wept on him the seven days while their feast lasted. And it happened on the seventh day that he told her because she pressed him so much. Then she explained the riddle to the sons of her people. So the men of the city said to him on the seventh day before the sun went down, "What is sweeter than honey and what is stronger than a lion?" And he said to them, "If you had not plowed with my heer, you would not have solved my riddle." Then the spirit of the Lord came upon him mightily. and he went down to Ashcolon and killed 30 of their men, took their apparel, and gave the changes of clothing to those who ex had explained the riddle. So his anger was aroused, and he went back up to his father's house. And Samson's wife was given to his companion, who had been his best man. Well, we'll stop there. We need to ask ourselves, A, what's this about? B, what's the best verse to summarize this? See, what are we called to do? So, what's this about? Right? So Samson grows up, right? We just had his backstory in chapter 12. Now we're at chapter 13. And what is what what is this? What's going on here? Well, Samson wants a girl. He's got his eyes on a girl down in the Philist and she's a Philistine. She's down in Philistia and he he sees her. He thinks she's pretty. Doesn't matter that this is against God's law. Doesn't matter that he's a Nazerite. He's supposed to be devoted to the Lord. None of this matters, right? He's a young guy. He's a strong guy. He sees that girl. He wants that girl. He's got a pretty wealthy dad. He says, "Go get me that girl." Mom and dad, hold on. Come on. You really got to go to uncircumcised Philistines. He says, "Yeah, yeah, I do." And they go along with it. But then we get this interlude story of this whole, you know, uh, he kills a lion with his bare hands and he comes back later and there's the carcass and the honey and he takes it and eats it. Doesn't tell mom and dad. Then the Philistines provide 30 companions, party friends for the for the festival. on in this kind of festival. What does Samson do? Hey, I got a riddle for you. And it's quite a bet. 30 sets of clothes. Now, you know, we in the West don't think that much about this because clothes are clothes, right? A lot of us get our stuff from Salvation Army or whatever, right? But clothes in antiquity are crazy expensive. I mean, crazy crazy expensive. We don't even have to go that far in antiquity. We just go to the 1700s, right? One of a book that most people might think would bore them to tears, but I found it fascinating was the making of clothes in colonial America. That's not the title, but that's basically what it was. And it was how these especially housewomen would raise flax and as they raise flax and they would do all the the the the work of of kind of breaking apart the fibers and putting them together and each person might get like one piece of clothing a year. And it was backbreaking, laborous, hard work happening all throughout the night. It hard to make clothes, right? People used to spin clothes. Moms and grandmas, they used to sit there and knit and crochet for a reason because most things were handmade. For him to say there's 30 30 outfits for people, that's big. And if it goes the other way and they have to pay him equally big is a big bet. And so they threaten his his bride. They threaten her. Hey, we're going to murder you and burn down your father's house. You You brought this foreigner in here and now he's going to do this and you think you're just going to get away with it? And so they threaten him or they threaten her and she cries and cries and cries to her husband. Understandably so. Right. These guys are vicious men. They they threatened her life and she's pleading with Samson. He's caught in a rock and a hard place. And so finally on the seventh day he breaks, tells her what happens. It's amazing how much can erode from just a dripping bit of water out of a faucet. And so he he tells her they come and tell him the truth and he says, "You wouldn't have have wanted to solve my riddle if you hadn't plowed with my heer, right? you you took you took my wife and you you did this. So what's he do? He goes and he kills 30 of their own people. The interesting thing with all of this is what it had said in the beginning when his parents had fussed about this and rightly so. They say God says in verse four, this is where it's it's helpful to get kind of a heavenly influence. Here we get a insight. But his father and mother did not know that it was of the Lord that he was seeking an occasion to move against the Philistines. For at that time the Philistines had dominion over Israel. See, God works through even sinful people and situations. We see this even in the life death of Jesus right in Acts chapter 2 when Peter is preaching he says you put him to death by lawless hands but it was according to God's fornowledge right this god predestined this God knew this was going to happen but you are still responsible for what you did this what Joseph says in the book of Genesis right you meant the de for evil but God meant it for good Samson's chasing after his own heart he's doing his own thing He's he's kind of a wishy-washy all over the place. He's a young guy. I think he's chasing after this hot girl and he finds himself just doing Yeah. It's just not good. And yet the Lord works in mysterious ways through situations like this. This is not a good text to give us like, oh, God doesn't actually care if you go and have unyokeked marriages. That's not what this is getting at. That's not what the the lesson is here. But God is working. Thank God he works even through sinful people. But even as the people are going to be looking to Samson, here's a strong man of Israel. He is the avenger against the Philistines. Praise God. One better than Samson would eventually come. A true Nazarite, Jesus Christ himself. Let's pray. Father, we thank you that you work through even sinful situations. Lord, you have a plan. It's mysterious to us. Your ways are higher than our ways. We often sit like Job covering our mouths, saying your this knowledge is too great for us. Lord, we don't want to speak out of ignorance. But Father, please, please help us. Help us to trust in even in our own lives when things are going sideways. Teach us Lord to walk in your ways. Give us faith in Jesus's name we pray. Amen. Well, may the Lord bless you. May you walk in the footsteps of Jesus. Though you have not seen him, yet you love him. May you go in the same way as that great shepherd of the sheep. May you keep his commands and follow in his ways. May you love others well. I'll see you next time. Bye.